Thanks, I'm glad you enjoyed your stay.
As a host, I'm sure you appreciate that the success of AirBnB requires guests to be considerate of neighbors. I’m a little perplexed by your comments about the neighbors, since they tell me they never spoke to you about noise and had nothing but pleasant things to say about you. The side porch light does shine in their bedroom window and keeps them awake if it’s left on all night, but flipping a light switch seems a pretty inconsequential courtesy.
As my welcome book explains, the cleaning fee is to cover the cost of the cleaning team who prepared my home for your stay. Since this is my primary residence and I wasn't going to return right away, if the trash isn't taken out, it might get kind of nasty, so I do ask guests take out the trash before they go. Fortunately, other guests have never found this problematic.
Hope you & Ted are enjoying your new home. Glad I was able to accommodate you during your transition.